These images were born at the dining room table of my (Petra’s) home in Seattle. My talented and creative friends Tony Nahra, Rand Babcock, Peggy Foerch Fitzgerald, and I brainstormed each one. “What does grief look like?” I’d ask. Then we’d sit in silence, writing down the images that came to mind. When we shared them, it sometimes sparked new ideas, and we continued to brainstorm until I felt we had one or more strong images to choose from for each emotion.
Verbally, I communicated these image ideas to the very talented and creative Kris Wiltse. “Grief,” I’d say, “Looks like someone in a fetal position.” Kris created a sketch of my description, and then showed it to me. Here’s the sketch she created of Grief:
That sketch was perfect, so I gave it a thumbs-up and Kris began to carve a linoleum block. But sometimes, when Kris created sketches of our ideas, I realized they wouldn’t work, and we had to implement another idea instead. Here are the first roughs for Depressed, Guilty, Hateful, and Unsure, for example, none of which made it into the deck:
My goal was to evoke–rather than depict–emotions wherever possible. But what fulfills, scares, or confuses us is so unique to each individual that it would’ve been impossible to find an image that would evoke the same feeling in everyone. So in those cases, I chose a more symbolic/conceptual image instead.
It was an absolute privilege to brainstorm these images with Tony, Rand, and Peggy and a dream come true to have someone as talented as Kris turn them into such beautiful works of art. For more information about how Kris created the illustrations, see this article: Carving in Color.
Following are the illustrations on each of the deck’s 60 emotion cards (the instructional and blank cards aren’t depicted here).
For the emotion associated with each of these images, hover over it with your mouse pointer.
thank you so much for showing all of the mixed emotions cards.I am really delighted to have seen them,They are a wonderful tool.Im sure they will help many people old and young.I will get them for my 13 year old neice and I can see they will be really powerful to help us all communicate more effectively.Thank you for this wonderful sharing on your site.
Wow. Thankyou for sharing these – they are very powerful.
Thank you. You have helped me appreciate how much I’ve grown. At 30, I couldn’t even name a feeling/emotion.
Thirty years later, I can smile, breathe deeply and say,” Yes, I am alive and well. Surely, your creative works will help many people.
Thank you for sharing all of the cards, We´ve been using
them as they are presented here and they are working in
wonderful ways helping hospitalized children express their
emotions, hope I can retrieve you soon aquiring some decks.
I found you on-line and am interested in your work, cards, writing retreat. Am wanting to write a book about my husband’s cancer journey and healing through alternative methods.
Writing your book (or at least parts of it) here on Whidbey Island would be a good match for you, Karen. There is such an openness to alternative methods of healing here, and you’ll find many fellow writers and artists. I’d love to know more about the alternative methods that worked for your husband.
Petra